Parents Do not Always Feel Smarter than Children

Parents often unwittingly communicate with the children feel more intelligent, better at it and more things from the child.Did you know that in fact we have instilled a mistake? Therefore, children feel as though patronized, disrespected, humiliated and demeaned by parents.
Our task is actually always guiding and directing them not one way and stick to moral values. Not compared children with us or with other children.

There are several other forms of communication that parents need to be avoided, such as:

* Avoid vulgarity
Avoid vulgarity that makes the emotion so out of control. Note the tone of voice. Set the tone of voice in order to stay organized, gentle and quiet. If the child starts irritating try to stay calm and never mind, let alone hit because violence will only create new problems.

* Refer to discuss the current situation
Avoid discussing the issue with the child when the child is tired or cranky. Parents should know the mood and way of thinking of her children.

* Do not compare with the old pattern
Parents should not be authoritarian and wear "blinders" with a pattern of long-standing tradition in which we are afraid to express pandapat, especially to parents because the children are now beginning to have more creativity, inventive, full of argument, had a way of looking wide.